Well here I sit stuffed on all the Thanksgiving trimming's for a second straight day..
I hope everyone had a wonderful Turkey Day?
Let me just start out by saying... I'm not much of a writer.. This is something I have never been good at.. The writing down of my feelings and thoughts..
The last few weeks have been up and down to say the least. A few weeks ago after a failed relationship of 10+ years my sister and two kids moved into the townhouse with me. Being the good younger brother, I gave them all the rooms, and I have been sleeping on an air mattress in the living room. This really kills my bachelor pad I had going. :(
I went from just me to three more and a second cat. I really need my sleep..
This current situation has also caused me to have to start looking for a new home to purchase and move into meaning even more stress and less sleep..
That reminds me... I better find the air pump so I can re-inflate my bed.
So you ask what I'm looking for... I'm looking for a nice home in the No.St.Paul/Maplewood area that's at least 2 bedrooms. Of course there needs to be a basement so I can set up the DJ equipment and sing karaoke every night. I was born and raised in No.St.Paul and would love to be closer to the parents. Besides.. It's nice going to the parents and getting my ass kicked in Wii Bowling by my Dad.
Other than that... I finally got to sing with a band for the first time this past Wed. at Sgt. Peppers. City Vibe was nice enough to let me join them, and sing lead on September by Earth, Wind & Fire. I'm just happy a family member was there to see it so I can brag to my family.. Guess you could say this karaoke guy is starting to gain confidence on stage. Watch out world!!!! ;)
After singing I had to fly and rescue the ex-girlfriend from the bar next door. I just couldn't let her sit there all alone on Thanksgiving Eve.. I'm still not sure why I have feelings for her but I do.. Talk about two people trying their hardest to destroy each other. That's us!!!
But I must say things have gotten better and for the first time she realizes what she lost. Well.. that's what she claims.. I love her and always will but I must do whats right for me, and move on in life. She always says when she turns 30 she wants to marry me..
Well that's 5 years away and I will be 44 then and still older and possible 6 feet deep. Oh yeah.. Yes.. There is a 14 year difference in age. For those of you who figured that out on your own.. that's simply means you never went to school in district 622. :)
OK.. Well for only the second blog I will stop here... I will keep you all posted on the move and life. Who knows things might just turn out for the best this time around.
Love ya all...
Dan
aka Homie DJ Dawg
Friday, November 23, 2007
Thursday, November 15, 2007
The life of a nice guy
It's amazing that assholes can get girls.
Actually, now that I think of it, it's not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they're after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn't want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "Oh he's hot" or "I want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action…..
Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren't looking for nice guys… they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all...
Actually, now that I think of it, it's not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they're after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn't want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "Oh he's hot" or "I want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action…..
Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren't looking for nice guys… they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all...
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